6: Allegra Maguire, Climbing Psychologist

Allegra is a Youtuber, mental climbing coach, and co-founder of ClimbInFlow, which provides services for climbing mind training. She has experience coaching all types of climbers, from beginners to world cup youth athletes. She recently came home from coaching at the youth world champs in Korea, where she helped Geila Macia Martin podium in boulder and lead! Allegra has also competed a bit herself, competing in Swedish Lead Championships after only 2 years of climbing.



Timestamps

Timestamps of discussion topics

0:00 - Introduction

5:20 - Which climbing federations have climbing psychologists?

7:54 - How climbing mixes with psychology

13:26 - Learning self compassion from Stefano Ghisolfi

17:21 - Anyone else relate to getting motivation from lack of self compassion?

21:21 - Coaching at youth world champs

27:00 - Sunk cost fallacy in climbing

31:03 - Opportunity cost neglect in competition climbing

39:52 - Psychological differences between youth and adult climbers

41:57 - How to get over fear of falling

47:49 - Fear of injuries

53:13 - Is it worth it to overcome fear?

59:01 - Is mental coaching even important?

1:04:17 - Climbing in the Swedish Lead Championships

1:07:13 - Women in competition

1:12:09 - Gender gap in climbing

1:18:07 - No such thing as fair in competition

1:24:29 - Where to find Allegra

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    Second place is a failure for her.

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    Giving power to those voices that say, you need to do this climb on lead or it's not

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    valuable or it doesn't count.

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    I've heard so much.

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    Men have much higher levels of competitiveness and this is definitely driven by a lot of

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    social pressure.

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    Welcome to another episode of the That's Not Real Climbing podcast.

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    I'm your host Jinni and I'm excited to introduce my guest for today, Allegra Maguire.

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    Allegra is a mental climbing coach who has experienced coaching all types of climbers

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    from beginners to World Cup youth athletes.

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    In this episode, we'll talk about what it was like coaching one of her athletes at the

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    Youth World Champs, how to deal with fear of falling, competing in Swedish league championships

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    after only two years of climbing, and the competitive mindset difference between males

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    and females.

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    Hope you enjoy this episode with Allegra.

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    Yeah, I'm glad we finally got a chance to schedule this.

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    It's been a long time.

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    Yeah, I'm sorry.

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    I've been so busy.

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    I've done so many things in the meantime.

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    Yeah, definitely.

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    So, yeah, there's a lot to catch up on.

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    But yeah, so far, how are you doing today?

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    I'm good, yeah.

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    I've just started basically becoming a junior trainer for climbing as well.

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    So a lot of stuff going on.

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    Yeah.

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    Do you feel like you're finally settled in after Korea and everything?

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    Oh, yes, definitely.

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    I took a while because after I came back from Korea, I got sick as well.

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    And I kept getting naps.

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    And so it took a bit.

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    And how are you?

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    Yeah, I'm good.

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    I haven't been doing as much traveling as you lately, but maybe soon.

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    Did you do any climbing yourself while you were in South Korea?

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    Just some climbing in one indoor gym and not so much more.

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    Too much.

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    Yeah.

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    How was it there?

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    Very cool, actually.

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    In the climbing, I mean, or in general?

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    Both, yeah.

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    Just from the climbing perspective, there's been a lot of talking going on about leveling

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    up the level of root setters in different gyms because the level of root setting was

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    very, very high in basically every boulder and gym in Seoul.

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    And I mean, I had a lot of discussions with the Italian team because I might be starting

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    to work with them next year.

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    And for the rest of South Korea was very similar to Japan, I have to say.

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    So I wasn't too culture shocked.

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    And I know Japan very well.

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    I used to live there for a while.

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    So it was summer and Asia in summer, humid and hot.

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    It was tough.

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    But super cool life.

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    Yeah.

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    Yeah, I've never been, but I really want to go.

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    How's the podcast going?

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    I saw that on Instagram, we're gathering followers.

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    Yeah, it's been okay.

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    It's been okay.

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    It's a lot of work.

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    Yeah, just like editing and distribution and stuff like that.

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    Or I guess, yeah, getting the advertisement out there is always difficult, but it's been

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    a whole process.

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    But yeah, I feel like a lot has changed since the first time we tried to film this.

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    Okay, like?

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    Well, I'm slightly less scared every time I do an interview.

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    And I'm a little bit more in the flow of the editing process.

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    But there's still a lot I want to change once I have the time.

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    Makes sense, makes sense.

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    Yeah, experience changes a lot.

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    Yeah, definitely.

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    I'm sure you're familiar with that with your YouTube channel.

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    Definitely, and I heard some of the podcasts that you've done.

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    And it's very cool stuff, I have to say.

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    And I usually listen to podcasts.

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    Thank you for making the exception.

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    Yeah, I'm really grateful for the guests I've had in the past.

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    They've all been really interesting.

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    So hoping to get more interesting people in the future.

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    Definitely.

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    Yeah, you mentioned that you might be doing stuff with the Italian team in the future.

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    Is that something you're allowed to talk about now?

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    I don't think I am.

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    I can say that I got in contact with other federations.

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    And I know that the Italian Federation is one of those that is in the same mental coaching

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    and has their own psychologist that is taking care of the athletes.

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    For example, this is something I can share.

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    Also because I've been talking with other athletes via Instagram from the Italian team

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    and I know that they have.

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    It's a lot of difference depending on the federation, really.

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    There's a lot of disparity when it comes to wealth.

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    And this has a big impact on the team as a whole.

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    Yeah, do you know which federations have dedicated climbing psychologists, if any?

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    As I said, Italy has.

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    But Spain doesn't.

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    So I'm employed by the single families.

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    I know that team Australia doesn't because I know that there have been some teams actually

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    crowd sounding or with different concepts.

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    So let's say the sports psychologist is one of the last things that they employ.

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    They have other priorities rightfully.

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    And I do understand.

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    I still see it more like as a luxury, like that type of treatment that very top level

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    athletes can get unless they ask them for them themselves.

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    And it's in that uptake of getting the super high level, getting everything as top quality,

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    top as possible, which is usually not how federations work in climbing.

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    A lot of times they just try to go with what they have.

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    And asking for more funds is not always easy and so on.

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    Yeah, definitely.

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    A lot of federations are struggling with having the amount of money that they need to pay

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    everyone that the athletes want and paying for their athletes to go to competitions.

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    Italy has this, the organization of getting them into the police.

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    So this is how athletes can get a living basically.

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    But not all of them get inside the police.

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    They need to achieve some big trophies and stuff.

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    So it's not like the whole team is in the police.

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    So for example, Laura Rogora and Stefano Ghisolfi are.

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    Ludovico Fossali, I believe so too.

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    What I need to check.

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    Yeah, that's good for them.

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    I'm sure having a regular income makes a huge difference just psychologically as well, not

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    having to worry about that.

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    But yeah, it's a lot of stuff, a lot that has to be discovered and that I hopefully

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    will know more about.

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    I know about very small areas so far.

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    And definitely the competition setting is one of my favorites.

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    Yeah.

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    And I think we'll get back to that in a little bit.

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    But first of all, let's figure out how you got here to begin with.

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    So can you tell us a bit about your background and how it relates to climbing and psychology?

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    Yes.

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    So I am a psychologist.

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    I studied flight experimental psychological sciences.

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    And after that, I moved to Sweden to study decision making, human decision making, because

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    that was my main interest.

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    But at the same time, as soon as I moved, I discovered there was a climbing gym really

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    close by my apartment.

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    And I started climbing and I got deep into it very, very fast.

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    So I think less than a month after, I started climbing four to five times a week.

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    Oh, that's a lot.

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    When I get obsessed, the obsessions go deep, I have to say.

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    So I started climbing and my climbing gym is a club.

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    So it's not a commercial gym.

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    It's very, very cheap.

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    Let's say around $10 a month.

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    It's super cheap.

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    That also means that we don't have professional route setters.

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    And everyone is allowed to route set during route setting weekends, which are approximately

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    four times a year.

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    And so I got more and more into the community and people were teaching me how to climb.

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    We didn't have any course specifically for adults.

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    We have for juniors, for kids, but not for adults.

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    So you really learn with the community and you learn to bond with the club itself.

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    So within six months from starting climbing, I started route setting.

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    And then I got into the organization.

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    So the following year was already in the board.

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    So in making the decisions on how to improve the club, how to make it more safe, how to

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    make it more fun.

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    So I worked on, for example, adding a slab wall because we didn't have any.

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    And it's very small.

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    It's very, very small, but it allows a lot of interaction.

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    And going forward, I started getting more and more involved with the club and getting

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    to know more and more people and noticing that psychology is something that was quite

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    missing in the climbing community and in the climbing scene.

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    Despite being very prevalent.

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    So a lot of people were talking about fear of falling, no systematic ways of talking

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    about fear of falling.

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    And especially when it goes outside of the fear of falling, everything is just regarded

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    as mental game.

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    And when you regard such complex processes with just one name, you can go into the details

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    of it.

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    You can really study it.

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    You can understand how to change it actively, unless going by trial and error.

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    And still with very little details.

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    So I decided to start one year after starting climbing, I decided to start my YouTube channel

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    in which I talk about sports psychology applied to climbing.

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    And then I got a lot of people contacting me for starting to make coaching.

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    And then I set up my own mental coaching service with other two amazing mental coaches.

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    And so now I am officially owner, co-founder of Climb and Flow, where I just do a lot of

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    different types of coaching from the average climber.

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    A lot of fear of falling, fear of judgment, a lot of fears, I have to say.

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    But also I started working with athletes because I got in contact with some families, most

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    of them from Spain, and the word spread.

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    So I started working with more and more elite athletes.

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    And then I got the privilege, I have to say, to become Jela Masi-Martin mental coach.

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    She's definitely the flagship of my athlete.

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    It's impossible to say anything different.

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    And so the idea is to put the athletes in the best mindset possible for competition.

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    So I've been following them and giving them help and support.

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    So for example, one of my athletes got injured.

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    We had to help her follow her schedule for the rehab and not to have completely mood

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    swings and to make her lose motivation for training despite she noticed that her strength

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    was definitely lower than before.

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    And she had an important competition that she really wanted to go to.

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    So a lot of different types of coaching, even with elite climbers.

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    But in most cases, it's about managing pressure in high demand and high anxiety situation.

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    Okay.

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    Yeah, that's awesome.

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    We'll get into probably the differences between general coaching versus elite athlete competition

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    coaching a bit later on.

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    But first, I wanted to just talk a little bit about your YouTube channel because that's

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    how I found you.

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    You do a lot of videos about the psychology behind different pro climbers that people

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    are familiar with.

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    What World Cup climber do you find the most psychologically interesting?

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    Oh, this is a big question.

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    Since we have so many different athletes and so many different mindsets, I don't know if

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    I can pinpoint one or another.

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    But if I have to think about it actively, so if I want to think about one mindset that

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    I would like more people to have and that will help a lot of people to improve their

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    relationship with themselves and with climbing, I would say Stefano Ghisolfi.

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    And I have done a video on Stefano Ghisolfi called Under the Mindset Analysis Series.

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    It's called Self-Compassion.

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    Because whenever I listen to him talk, and to a certain degree, I could also listen to

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    him in Italian since I'm Italian as well.

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    So I could get a bit more information, still don't know him directly in person I'm working

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    on.

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    And then, yeah, I'm getting into contact with more and more professional climbers.

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    So I'll be doing more of these mindset analysis videos by asking them directly and trying

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    to figure out, yes, instead of trying to extrapolate from information elsewhere.

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    But Stefano has this very self-compassion attitude towards himself, towards mistakes,

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    towards improving that really is fueling his desire for improvement, for climbing, from

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    enjoying the roots of his climbing indoors or outdoors.

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    And it's something that really can be trained, can be learned.

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    And a lot of people misunderstand because of the self-development industry, the role

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    of self-compassion compared to self-discipline.

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    So a lot of people see self-compassion as a way of being self-indulgent with oneself.

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    And use a lot of very tough self-talk to try to go through difficult times.

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    And this, in the long run, it's detrimental for several reasons.

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    First of all, unless there are some specific cases in which the person has been developing

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    in a very tough environment, has been succeeding in surviving and not quitting, then maybe

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    self-discipline could still work without too many detrimental effects.

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    But we know from the research that people that are more self-compassion are able to

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    keep internal, intrinsic motivation for a longer period of time.

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    They can get through setbacks more easily and they have a higher level of quality of

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    their lives and of enjoyment of their activity as well.

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    So we both know from a research point of view, but we also know from psychotherapy.

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    So we know that from the clinical area, self-compassion is a very important aspect to improve quality

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    of lives and how you basically see yourself when you are in the process.

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    So when you put together these two types of evidence, you can learn to see how self-compassion

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    can be used in specific settings, such as managing mistakes in sport.

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    Not that there is no research in sport, there it is.

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    A lot of research in self-compassion in sport as well.

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    But all the information basically is going towards that direction.

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    Yeah, I think for me personally, I probably struggle with that quite a bit.

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    Yeah, just like when you were talking about it, it sounded a lot like me to have not much

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    self-compassion.

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    But I guess the way I justified it was if I tell myself that I suck, then I'll want

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    to work harder to do better.

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    And if I tell myself that I'm doing well, then I'll get complacent and just be like,

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    well, I'm already doing well, so there's not really a need to try harder.

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    So I guess in a way that can be kind of bad, but that's just what I'm thinking.

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    So the thing is that even when you tell yourself, if you are the type of person to tell yourself

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    that you suck and you still get motivated, then there is a part of yourself that is aware

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    of the fact that, for example, you're able to improve and learn if you want to.

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    And the problem really is when you get the lows of motivation.

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    So one thing is saying like, I suck at this move.

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    Another thing is saying, I suck.

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    So refer to yourself, maybe yourself as a client, yourself as a person, has different

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    kinds of implications, definitely.

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    And there is sometimes this narrative that if you're satisfied with what you have, you

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    might not want to keep going further.

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    You know, you don't have as much desire to keep on going.

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    And if we look at the different types of motivation that people have, usually it's not the fear

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    of sucking, for example, that drives a lot of people, it's the sense of accomplishment,

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    doing better and being capable of what you're doing and so on.

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    And then we know for sure from the research in strength training that the more you get

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    experienced in one type of activity, the harder it will be to get to a certain level and to

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    improve.

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    You know, we call it the plateau, but it's much more complex than this, but it is in

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    the long scale, how it looks like and how it feels like for a lot of people.

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    So it's a lot about the amount of effort they have to put into it to reach the next

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    marginal gain.

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    So the effort that you need to put into it becomes greater and greater.

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    And then if the desire, the motivation that you want to put into it is driven by fear,

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    it's much easier to give up because you have already achieved a lot, let's say.

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    You might have some basis, maybe say, okay, I suck at comp style moves, but I'm super,

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    super strong outdoors.

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    And I can keep on working on that, maintaining that, seeing where is my limit and not wanting

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    to invest in the things that are threatening you, let's say.

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    Despite the types of motivation that are going towards trying to achieve your goals.

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    So if you're not afraid of sucking, you have more motivation to keep on trying to go for

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    improving your weaknesses of something that doesn't feel as, let's say, feasible or as

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    rewarding right away.

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    So those people are more prone to persevering even when the, let's say, the stake comes

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    later in time compared to the reward at the moment.

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    Because the reward at the moment is what is actually trying to overcome the fear of sucking

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    in that specific thing.

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    Well, thanks for helping me with that.

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    Yeah, let's move on to the Youth World Championships, which you were just at in Korea that we were

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    talking about.

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    So yeah, let's talk about first, what group of athletes are you currently coaching?

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    So I'm currently coaching one athlete that is 12.

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    And we started working together when she was 11, so she's still not in the IFSC circuit.

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    And then I have some athletes that are 15.

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    They all come from the same group.

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    And the one that I've been going to the World Championships with is Jayla Masia-Martin,

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    who is a climber that you will hear a lot more in the future.

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    And I'm saying this not just because she is my athlete, and of course she is special in

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    my eyes, but she is outstanding.

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    She is the European champion and won the championships in both LEAD and Boulder.

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    So not only the championships, but the overall top, let's say, in both cases.

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    And also in the World Championships, she got two medals in the two disciplines that she

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    competed in.

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    So she is definitely outstanding.

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    She was also the only one from Europe on the podium.

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    Oh, wow.

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    Japan went very, very hard at the Youth World Championships.

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    And it might be also because they're more familiar with the weather conditions, because

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    every European got completely smashed by the weather conditions because it was incredibly,

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    incredibly humid and hot.

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    And the facilities were, I would say, pretty bad.

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    So for example, when they had to warm up for boulders, the bouldering area was extremely

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    small.

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    The route setting was very, very easy.

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    There was a spray wall that was made only by jugs.

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    What?

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    Wow.

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    There were no hangboard.

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    It was very, very weird.

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    They all got a bit thrown off by this, and mentally it was very hard, I would say, for

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    everyone because they didn't have a lot to work on.

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    Everyone was trying to create boulders with boulders that were not set for that intention.

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    And the only holes that were hard enough were always the same.

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    So everyone was almost like in line or trying to push each other out of the walls to warm

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    up.

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    Oh, that's stressful.

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    It was very, very stressful.

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    And you could feel it in the air really, especially the first day when people went around the

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    area and discovered that there was one small campus board that was not a standard campus

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    board and it was on vertical.

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    And the rung was pretty big too.

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    There was no space to move the feet underneath.

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    It was very weird.

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    So very, very difficult conditions, I have to say.

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    And then when they were climbing outdoors, because the comp settings were outdoors, the

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    sun was hitting.

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    Sometimes it was raining a bit because the high level of humidity does this, and everyone

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    was slipping all the time.

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    And probably the Japanese team was more used to this compared to other countries.

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    Korea also did very well.

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    Hometown advantage.

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    Yes.

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    But the Japanese team was a striking one.

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    You could see results in settings which you would never guess.

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    For example, speed climbing.

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    And seeing the goal in speed climbing by a female Japanese girl, athlete, it was pretty

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    striking to me.

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    So it was definitely conditions that played a role.

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    And then maybe definitely the Japanese team has an edge in training.

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    It still has to be discovered.

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    Right.

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    What are their secrets?

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    But overall, the championships went really, really well.

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    The setting was very interesting.

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    Sometimes weird, I have to say.

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    Very hard to read holders and routes, which in a certain sense wanted to push for decision

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    making, I would say.

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    Route-reading ability rather than strength and technique sometimes.

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    Because a lot of, for example, the females final was a disaster for half participants.

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    Probably half of the girls were crying when they finished.

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    The route was incredibly hard to read.

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    And a lot of people got stuck.

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    Many mistakes and very difficult type of climbing, I have to say.

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    The boulder was pretty much the same, not as dramatic, I have to say.

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    But you could see that the athletes were all struggling trying to understand which was

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    the best, the easiest beta.

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    So slashes were less prevalent.

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    Sometimes there were.

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    There was a run in which J.L.A. did all the boulders flash.

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    But for example, not in finals.

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    This wasn't the case.

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    Or for the finals, the boulders were especially tricky to read.

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    And so how does decision making kind of connect with it?

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    Is it just as simple as making a decision and sticking to it and committing?

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    Or is there more to it?

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    Definitely a lot more.

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    And I have to say, well, I have a professional deformation in this term.

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    But I work a lot with cognitive biases in decision making.

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    So the types of biases that impact our way of processing information or applying or sticking

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    to decision, actually sticking to decision is one of the biases that we study so much.

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    And for example, one is the sound cost fallacy.

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    So maybe some of the audience, someone from the Austin Tops for Me or Sound Costs are

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    the costs that already occurred in a decision.

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    And they shouldn't influence future decision.

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    So the decision should be an evaluation of pros and cons in the different outcomes and

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    depending on the probabilities of the outcomes and whether you invested resources.

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    It doesn't even need to be money.

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    It could be time, it could be energy, it could be training, it could be anything really.

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    Really shouldn't influence a future decision.

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    And this is also called the Concord fallacy because the Concord was a project for a super

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    fast jet that was supposed to make, yes, traveling super fast across the world.

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    And I think there were actually two governments that funded this project with, I don't remember

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    how much money, but a lot of money.

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    And the problem was that as soon as the project started, they understood that it was going

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    to fail.

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    But since they invested this amount of money, they kept on investing it.

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    Let's see if there's something that we can do about it since we put so much money into

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    it and if they continued then it failed eventually as it was predicted.

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    But this can be used for any aspect of our lives.

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    It could be used for, for example, relationships.

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    Maybe you invested a lot of time in one relationship and you don't want to get out of it or you

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    invested your time in a university course that you don't really like, that you know

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    you've done a couple of exams, you don't want to throw all that effort away.

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    When it comes to climbing, it can really go from training.

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    So for example, with training, we have to say that we see the opposite.

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    So people are not sticking to a specific type of training plan.

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    But sometimes there is something like if it works, don't change it.

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    So you've seen something that has been working for a very long time, for example, just climbing.

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    And you keep on climbing.

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    So like, I mean, this I've been improving so much with just climbing.

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    This should work for the future as well.

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    And this is a kind of a different bias.

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    You really can have it in any type of investment that you have for your, both in your like

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    training and the competition setting.

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    In a sign cost fallacy is usually not, you can see it, for example, in a boulder.

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    So you do a move, you do a specific kind of beta, and you see improvement.

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    And you see this could work and you don't take the time to try something else because

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    you see there is something that is working, something that is improving and you don't

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    want to make these efforts to waste.

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    So you want to make this beta work.

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    Well there might be something easier that can work.

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    I've seen it in sound comps.

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    Fortunately, this is not something that JLA showed during the competition, but it's something

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    that can happen.

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    One bias that I see much more frequently than sound cost bias is the opportunity cost neglect.

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    And it's the basic of opportunity cost neglect is that all resources are finite.

    429

    00:31:22,540 --> 00:31:28,440

    So in any decision there is an opportunity cost, which is the cost of the option that

    430

    00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,560

    is not chosen.

    431

    00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:31,560

    So what does it mean?

    432

    00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:37,800

    It means that with any choice you make, you're forgoing something else.

    433

    00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:43,080

    And if you don't pay attention to the fact that you are basically giving up something

    434

    00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:48,680

    else with this choice, you incur into opportunity cost neglect.

    435

    00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,280

    And I've seen it many times.

    436

    00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:56,400

    I've actually seen it sometimes in JLA, so we worked on it as well.

    437

    00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:02,540

    And it's something that I'm actually working on as a PhD student.

    438

    00:32:02,540 --> 00:32:08,280

    So I've worked on opportunity cost neglect a lot throughout different contexts and now

    439

    00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,600

    I'm applying it to climbing as well, to need climbing.

    440

    00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:15,680

    But you can see this, this is a general example.

    441

    00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:24,320

    This is not the case of JLA, but consider for example, when you are bouldering or lead

    442

    00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,280

    climbing and you have to do several sessions.

    443

    00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:32,840

    So for example, when it comes to lead climbing, you have semi-finals and finals are on the

    444

    00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:37,920

    same day, which means that you will be doing a lot of effort.

    445

    00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,400

    You will be losing a lot of skin, especially if you're doing bouldering.

    446

    00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,800

    You're going to get pumped.

    447

    00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:49,240

    And if you can make a precise estimate of how is your performance, especially compared

    448

    00:32:49,240 --> 00:33:00,240

    to the other competitors, you need to really make strategic decisions about whether your

    449

    00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:06,280

    effort or whether you're giving up with the next choice and the next try and the effort

    450

    00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,300

    that you're going to put in the next round is going to be worth.

    451

    00:33:10,300 --> 00:33:14,960

    So for example, you see that there is a boulder is specifically hard.

    452

    00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:19,120

    You've got the zone, is the last boulder.

    453

    00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:27,080

    And now you can see from the information that is going around from the crowd, you can get

    454

    00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:33,120

    an idea whether you are final or not, especially if you're in the top position.

    455

    00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:38,040

    Then it might be worth, especially if for example, it's a sloper move with mega jump

    456

    00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,480

    where you can lose a lot of skin, you can open flat.

    457

    00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:47,320

    Then, you know, these kinds of elements can impact a lot, the final.

    458

    00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:57,320

    And so you might be willing to not push to the very last bit of effort and allocate it

    459

    00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:58,320

    to the finals.

    460

    00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:05,320

    That if you don't, you're taking it away from times for the final.

    461

    00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:11,040

    But what I notice is that a lot of time athletes are actually trying to do their actual best

    462

    00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,880

    in semifinals as well.

    463

    00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:18,080

    And this has some impacts, for example, in their motivation.

    464

    00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:25,600

    So if they end up first in semifinal, they feel more confident that they can win in finals

    465

    00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:26,600

    as well.

    466

    00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:31,760

    But also from the data that I have collected, this is not the case.

    467

    00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,960

    Oh, really?

    468

    00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,880

    I've got the data from World Cups and Championships.

    469

    00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:43,240

    I don't remember how many years, but actually between the three podium positions, there

    470

    00:34:43,240 --> 00:34:47,960

    is no difference in the predicted outcome of who's going to win.

    471

    00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:53,240

    So this is something that I find really interesting that I talk about a lot with my athletes.

    472

    00:34:53,240 --> 00:35:02,560

    So for example, Jayla had issues with her confidence when she's not first in semifinals.

    473

    00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:10,320

    We worked a lot in trying to get her this confidence back and really go for her best

    474

    00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,800

    in finals with the confidence that she can go there to win.

    475

    00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,480

    Because this is what she has.

    476

    00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,080

    We know that she wants to go there and take first place.

    477

    00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,960

    Second place is a failure for her.

    478

    00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:25,960

    This is the kind of mentality that she has, and that is fine.

    479

    00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,120

    Something that we have to manage, but it's not a problem itself.

    480

    00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,840

    And it's something that really allows her to do her best.

    481

    00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,360

    So it's not something that is pulling her down.

    482

    00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,000

    So for example, self-sabotaging.

    483

    00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:39,440

    She doesn't have this type of behavior.

    484

    00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:44,060

    So for her, this is the aim, her goal.

    485

    00:35:44,060 --> 00:35:49,680

    But sometimes she would want to do her best and try to be first even in semifinals when

    486

    00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:53,760

    it's not necessary.

    487

    00:35:53,760 --> 00:36:00,080

    We don't actually see this much of a problem because Jayla, we have to say, has a good

    488

    00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,000

    edge on the other participants.

    489

    00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,880

    So it doesn't really matter as much.

    490

    00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,600

    But I've seen from other professional climbers.

    491

    00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:14,160

    So for example, I remember there was an interview for Jessica Pils, the qualified second at

    492

    00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,600

    the European Championships, I believe.

    493

    00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,280

    And they asked her how she felt.

    494

    00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:25,280

    She said that she was disappointed because she couldn't give her best effort.

    495

    00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:32,320

    And in my mind, when you qualify second for finals, it's like you should be screaming

    496

    00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:37,120

    out of joy that you didn't even have to put everything you had into that situation.

    497

    00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:43,360

    And you get this extra edge compared to the other participants because you are more fresh.

    498

    00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:44,960

    You are not as pumped.

    499

    00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:52,920

    And especially if it's like a foot slip, it's something like it doesn't impact your skin

    500

    00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,880

    or your pump as much.

    501

    00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:01,920

    But in her mind, this wasn't the case because that was an indication of, for example, lack

    502

    00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:09,120

    of focus or something that she wouldn't feel as confident for the finals as well.

    503

    00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:14,720

    Jessica Pils, Jessie, is one of the most accomplished competition climbers as well.

    504

    00:37:14,720 --> 00:37:19,280

    So we know that she can do very, very well in competitions.

    505

    00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:25,120

    And it shouldn't be the result of semifinals, which is impacted by so many factors to influence

    506

    00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:29,280

    or determine whether she feels confident for the finals or not.

    507

    00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,080

    You know what I mean?

    508

    00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:36,800

    And I don't see this mentality in competition climbers as much.

    509

    00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:42,400

    Sometimes we see boulders that say, okay, I'm good with my performance.

    510

    00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:47,400

    I can go to the next step, which is a sign that people take into consideration opportunity

    511

    00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,400

    costs.

    512

    00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:54,760

    I remember Yania at the Olympics with the last boulder.

    513

    00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,320

    She flashed the first two and the third one, she didn't top it.

    514

    00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:04,840

    And she did two tries, I believe, more than one for sure.

    515

    00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,560

    So she showed that she wanted to send the last boulder as well.

    516

    00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,840

    But then she had to do lead climbing afterwards.

    517

    00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:18,220

    So she did try more than once, despite she was already first and she knew she was already

    518

    00:38:18,220 --> 00:38:27,280

    first the first two boulders, even without coming out on the mat.

    519

    00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,320

    I can understand the pride in wanting to top all the boulders at the Olympics.

    520

    00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,320

    Absolutely fine.

    521

    00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,000

    But after a while she said, I'm stopping here.

    522

    00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:38,240

    I'm going to do lead so that I can go take my goal there too.

    523

    00:38:38,240 --> 00:38:39,240

    Yeah.

    524

    00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:45,880

    I actually don't remember that, but I feel like she usually just wants to climb as much

    525

    00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:46,880

    as she can.

    526

    00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,880

    Yeah.

    527

    00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:54,720

    But when you have a different session afterwards, the whole process of going through qualifications

    528

    00:38:54,720 --> 00:39:01,080

    and finals and finals in very small period of time is really a lot about strategic thinking.

    529

    00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:05,960

    And Yania has the edge by the fact that she can flash everything basically.

    530

    00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:11,760

    So the amount of effort that she has to put compared to other participants is much less.

    531

    00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:12,760

    She's much more fresh.

    532

    00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,080

    She has more skin and so on.

    533

    00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:24,000

    But at the same time, it's still a whole other process of going through the lead Olympics.

    534

    00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:29,480

    So it made sense that she stopped after a while.

    535

    00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:34,040

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    536

    00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:39,880

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    537

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    538

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    on back to the show.

    541

    00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:58,340

    I guess talking about where athletes are at psychologically, what are some of the differences

    542

    00:39:58,340 --> 00:40:03,800

    you see between like youth climbers and like adult climbers?

    543

    00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,840

    Either in the competition scene or just in general.

    544

    00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:07,840

    Okay.

    545

    00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:13,200

    So definitely with youth climbers, we have many more difficulties with managing emotions

    546

    00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:18,000

    because this is the age where the prefrontal cortex is developing.

    547

    00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:25,960

    So it's how you manage not only your emotion, but how you program your own rewards throughout

    548

    00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:26,960

    time.

    549

    00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:32,840

    So for example, kids and adolescents require rewards more often compared to adults.

    550

    00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,000

    Adults can sustain frustration for a longer period of time.

    551

    00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:39,880

    They can sustain attention for a longer period of time and so on.

    552

    00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:47,400

    So when it comes to working with the adolescents, it's a lot about managing the emotion.

    553

    00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,920

    So I do a lot of emotion regulation kind of mental training.

    554

    00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:58,200

    While with the adults, it's usually much more about beliefs about themselves, which are

    555

    00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:03,880

    more strong and eradicated in the idea of who the people are, the person is.

    556

    00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:09,480

    So for example, I'm a coward, something I hear a lot when I do fear of falling training

    557

    00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,120

    with people.

    558

    00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:12,920

    And it's a judgment.

    559

    00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:21,800

    It's a judgment and a statement that is generalized to the whole being.

    560

    00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:27,120

    It's not just like I'm a coward when it comes to this specific situation.

    561

    00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,240

    I'm a coward, period.

    562

    00:41:29,240 --> 00:41:30,240

    That's who I am.

    563

    00:41:30,240 --> 00:41:32,160

    This is how I work.

    564

    00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,980

    And if we want to overcome this, we have to work on how you see yourself.

    565

    00:41:36,980 --> 00:41:45,760

    So we have to start by making a bit of an analysis of the different types of fear the

    566

    00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:47,940

    person has because when it comes to...

    567

    00:41:47,940 --> 00:41:51,840

    I'm talking now about fear of falling, but it can be applied to anything a lot of people

    568

    00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:52,840

    are afraid of.

    569

    00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:59,240

    For example, climbing in front of people and especially when it comes to significant others.

    570

    00:41:59,240 --> 00:42:02,960

    But let's talk about fear of falling, for example.

    571

    00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:03,960

    It's much easier.

    572

    00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:11,040

    A lot of people say that they are afraid of falling, but fear of falling can really have

    573

    00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:15,040

    so many different faces and people don't realize.

    574

    00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:20,380

    So when they say, I'm afraid of falling, say, okay, but what are you afraid of?

    575

    00:42:20,380 --> 00:42:25,320

    And then they start thinking about it and they say, okay, but then are you afraid of

    576

    00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,760

    be laying on top rope, for example?

    577

    00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,320

    And they say, no.

    578

    00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:36,020

    And then the other person that is in the course with me is like, I am actually afraid of be

    579

    00:42:36,020 --> 00:42:38,600

    laying, I'm afraid of killing my friend.

    580

    00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:45,240

    And I mean, when it comes to top roping, we know that as long as there is safety check

    581

    00:42:45,240 --> 00:42:52,880

    and everything is managed as it's supposed to be, with the body check and everything,

    582

    00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:57,160

    then the chances of this happening are very, very low.

    583

    00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:01,020

    When it comes to lead climbing, be laying is not as straightforward.

    584

    00:43:01,020 --> 00:43:06,680

    So there are a lot of people that are actually anxious and afraid of lead be laying.

    585

    00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:13,520

    So this is another type of fear of falling that I work with a lot.

    586

    00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:19,320

    And then there are some people that are afraid not really of falling, but of losing control.

    587

    00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:24,440

    So they can do program falling, but not when they're not really aware of what are the consequences

    588

    00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:29,060

    or what could happen if you fall in a weird position and how to manage a situation which

    589

    00:43:29,060 --> 00:43:30,060

    are actually dangerous.

    590

    00:43:30,060 --> 00:43:34,280

    And we know they are, for example, when you have the foot that is behind the rope and

    591

    00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:37,620

    can get entangled and you can fall up backwards.

    592

    00:43:37,620 --> 00:43:43,840

    So there are so many different types of fear and even just making them realize that there

    593

    00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:48,480

    are so many different types and they don't have all of them is already something that

    594

    00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,840

    is doing something for them.

    595

    00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:57,720

    Of course, I'm not like I'm putting it into that perspective, but the perspective is that

    596

    00:43:57,720 --> 00:43:59,000

    you're helping each other.

    597

    00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:04,640

    So I do these courses with like six, eight people at the time and everyone has different

    598

    00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,240

    kind of fears.

    599

    00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:11,080

    And when they have to work helping not only like themselves because they have to help

    600

    00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:16,920

    themselves so that they can improve with their sensations and their fears, they also have

    601

    00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,880

    to help the other person.

    602

    00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,440

    And the other person has different fears from what you have.

    603

    00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:28,360

    And it actually, when you see that you can help someone else as well, it really gives

    604

    00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:34,320

    you a different perspective about how fear of falling feels.

    605

    00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:38,960

    And when you see that there are some people that are terrified just by sitting on the

    606

    00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:45,440

    harness when they're on top rope and there are plenty of these people, we don't see them

    607

    00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,920

    as much because they just don't climb.

    608

    00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,640

    They just boulder.

    609

    00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,880

    So this is one of the missions that I have, right?

    610

    00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:59,440

    So try to bring more people rope climbing because there is a lot of people that just

    611

    00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,460

    don't start because they can't overcome the fear or it's like too much of an effort for

    612

    00:45:03,460 --> 00:45:09,360

    them to actually enjoy the climbing.

    613

    00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:15,380

    And then the person that says, yes, I'm a super big coward is there doing the proper

    614

    00:45:15,380 --> 00:45:24,260

    falls with some slack and going onto the overhang that is scaring them as much and so much.

    615

    00:45:24,260 --> 00:45:27,880

    So it really puts things into different perspective.

    616

    00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:31,500

    You can see the progression not only yours but of other people.

    617

    00:45:31,500 --> 00:45:38,800

    So it's impacting this idea that this is who I am and it's unchangeable and gives them

    618

    00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,000

    confidence by the fact that they can change the way they feel and they can change the

    619

    00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:47,960

    way they perceive the different threats and that they can enjoy the climbing more.

    620

    00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,560

    Because this is one of the biggest issues with fear of falling.

    621

    00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:57,460

    Of course, some people would say to me it's very, very frustrating that I'm not able to

    622

    00:45:57,460 --> 00:45:59,000

    climb at my max grade.

    623

    00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:03,480

    For example, when you compare the climbing to top roping.

    624

    00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:09,440

    But a lot, a lot of people just say like, I don't do it because I don't like it because

    625

    00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:16,840

    I'm so scared and I feel so overwhelmed or I feel so incompetent when I do it that I

    626

    00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:21,700

    just don't enjoy what I'm doing even if I'm doing something that is very easy for my level

    627

    00:46:21,700 --> 00:46:25,880

    of expertise.

    628

    00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:32,800

    So really is different when it comes to adults compared to adolescents.

    629

    00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,240

    Adolescents are also much more reckless.

    630

    00:46:35,240 --> 00:46:38,520

    No fear of falling.

    631

    00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:45,960

    I had some youth, not an elite climber that has fear of falling.

    632

    00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,980

    But it really goes with the background that they have.

    633

    00:46:48,980 --> 00:46:57,720

    So for example, if they come from an environment that is overprotective, then no room to experimentation

    634

    00:46:57,720 --> 00:47:01,640

    and to some degrees of risk is allowed.

    635

    00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:07,180

    And then they learn to be very afraid, especially if the parents are very afraid themselves.

    636

    00:47:07,180 --> 00:47:11,720

    So basically they learn this is a coping mechanism to protect themselves.

    637

    00:47:11,720 --> 00:47:13,620

    And then, yeah.

    638

    00:47:13,620 --> 00:47:20,120

    I mean, I would also think that getting injured would really affect the fear of falling as

    639

    00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:21,120

    well.

    640

    00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:22,120

    Exactly.

    641

    00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:26,240

    I actually have a lot of adults that are afraid of fear of falling because of injuries.

    642

    00:47:26,240 --> 00:47:30,120

    I fortunately have youth climbers that are afraid.

    643

    00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:37,440

    I had one athlete that got a bit more scared when she was climbing on lead.

    644

    00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,640

    And then there was like a very big pyramid that was sticking out.

    645

    00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,440

    And so she hit it with a fall.

    646

    00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,120

    But nothing bad happened.

    647

    00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,960

    She got a bit self-conscious about the consequences of the fall.

    648

    00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:55,120

    So for a while she didn't commit as much, but then she overcame it quickly.

    649

    00:47:55,120 --> 00:48:00,800

    Usually injuries are a big issue when it comes to your falling with adults.

    650

    00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:06,560

    And also because they have to consider whether it's worth going back into it, especially

    651

    00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:12,200

    if the injury is very severe or happens multiple times, because unfortunately I've seen it

    652

    00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,080

    happening multiple times for the same person.

    653

    00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:19,200

    Oh gosh.

    654

    00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,720

    Which can be a lot to think about really.

    655

    00:48:23,720 --> 00:48:29,600

    Because there are some situations and some places which are more dangerous than others.

    656

    00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:37,240

    I have to say that when I compare the things that I see happening in Sweden compared to

    657

    00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:43,920

    my Italian clients, because most of my clients are from Italy or from Sweden, because I live

    658

    00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:49,560

    in Sweden, but I can also do coaching online with Italians because I'm Italian.

    659

    00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,240

    And then I can do it in English with all the other countries.

    660

    00:48:52,240 --> 00:48:55,100

    That's why I also have contact with Spain and so on.

    661

    00:48:55,100 --> 00:49:01,520

    But when it comes to fear of falling, most of my clients are from Italy and from Sweden.

    662

    00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:06,520

    And in Sweden, especially when it comes to indoor climbing, we have very rigid standards.

    663

    00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:11,120

    So you cannot climb unless you have the green card, which is something that you get after

    664

    00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:17,680

    following two days course and doing an exam that is both theoretical and practical.

    665

    00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,720

    And they still always show the green card or the red card.

    666

    00:49:20,720 --> 00:49:23,880

    Green card is for top roping and red card is for lead climbing.

    667

    00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,560

    It should always be on your harness.

    668

    00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:33,560

    And if you are seen doing it systematically, things are not conformed to what you're taught,

    669

    00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,360

    then they can actually revoke it.

    670

    00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:40,480

    And say, I'm not letting you from doing this climbing here.

    671

    00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:44,120

    And you're giving a bad example for someone else as well.

    672

    00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:52,240

    So for us, at least what I've seen here in Sweden, we have this very high standards.

    673

    00:49:52,240 --> 00:49:58,120

    And if you ask Swedes, they wouldn't say that they are high, but compared to other countries,

    674

    00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:04,480

    and I can talk about Italy, I can talk about Spain, but the standards there is lower.

    675

    00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:09,040

    So you don't have any systematic way of doing the courses.

    676

    00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:14,960

    I don't really know how it is in the rest of the world, but it's like, yeah, I can check

    677

    00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:19,640

    how you belay and then I give you something that tells you you can do the belaying.

    678

    00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:25,760

    There is much less attention to details or how to do dynamic belaying, how to prevent

    679

    00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:30,040

    certain types of injuries, how to prevent not falling upside down and all of these kinds

    680

    00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,120

    of things.

    681

    00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:38,260

    Or as simple as holding on the brake strand of the rope when you're with the grigri.

    682

    00:50:38,260 --> 00:50:46,840

    So it really is a problem to climb in certain environments in which rules are not enforced

    683

    00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:52,720

    or not, let's say, embraced as much.

    684

    00:50:52,720 --> 00:50:58,320

    And this can raise a lot of issues with trusted people.

    685

    00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:04,040

    So is there more fear in Sweden where it's very strict or in other countries?

    686

    00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:09,840

    I would say Sweden is as much as other countries, but the fact is that when you have less safety

    687

    00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:17,800

    in some places, like we always talk about the Mediterranean countries where we're very

    688

    00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:22,280

    used to belaying while smoking or looking at the phone.

    689

    00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:23,280

    Okay.

    690

    00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,680

    I've never seen that, but wow.

    691

    00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:32,840

    And it's very famous, it's called Mediterranean belaying, unfortunately.

    692

    00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,640

    And it happens very often.

    693

    00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:41,640

    And when this is linked with injuries, like this would obviously lead towards more injuries.

    694

    00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:45,840

    So injuries can happen everywhere, but we still have to try to mitigate the risk as

    695

    00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:47,220

    much as possible.

    696

    00:51:47,220 --> 00:51:53,480

    And so when you see as many injuries happening and the people get injured, then they get,

    697

    00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,560

    of course, more scared.

    698

    00:51:55,560 --> 00:52:04,000

    And then there is all the trust with the belaying relationship that it's not really, they say,

    699

    00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,920

    investigated as much.

    700

    00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:12,560

    And you need to teach the person to look for someone who is reliable.

    701

    00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:18,480

    And so it's not as easy really when it comes to an environment that is not as protected

    702

    00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,320

    as, for example, in Spain.

    703

    00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:25,960

    And everyone can, of course, can do whatever they want outdoors, but it's still something

    704

    00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:29,280

    that we need to think about because it's a dangerous sport.

    705

    00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,920

    And you know this and we need to...

    706

    00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,640

    I see injuries in my gym as well, of course.

    707

    00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:41,200

    I'm responsible for seeing injuries basically everywhere, but most of them are in the boulder

    708

    00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:46,720

    area, not while doing rope climbing.

    709

    00:52:46,720 --> 00:52:51,120

    And we were trying to do as much as we can to prevent those.

    710

    00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:57,000

    And we can still do more, but it's definitely a different situation also because in lead

    711

    00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,920

    climbing you have more severe injuries.

    712

    00:52:59,920 --> 00:53:09,320

    I mean, I have one athlete, one client that after an injury couldn't walk for a while

    713

    00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,200

    and that was his second injury.

    714

    00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:19,520

    So there were very severe accidents, bones that were broken and people risking their

    715

    00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:20,520

    lives lately.

    716

    00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:21,520

    Yeah.

    717

    00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,680

    How do you come back from something like that?

    718

    00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:29,440

    First of all, you need to actually ask yourself if you want to come back.

    719

    00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:36,120

    And for the person in question, climbing is so important for his life that probably climbing,

    720

    00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:41,680

    I'm still not aware if he decided to go back, but we talked about it and he was positive

    721

    00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,960

    to the idea of going back into climbing because climbing is something that literally saved

    722

    00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,900

    his life.

    723

    00:53:48,900 --> 00:53:57,320

    So I believe the motivation there is enough, but there are some times in which the risk

    724

    00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,440

    is not worth the candles.

    725

    00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,240

    It's what we say in Italian.

    726

    00:54:01,240 --> 00:54:05,200

    I don't know if this expression exists in English or not.

    727

    00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:10,880

    We actually say the game is not worth the candles, but because at the time we were supposed

    728

    00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:18,000

    to play without lights and the candles were expensive.

    729

    00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,000

    Doesn't matter.

    730

    00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:26,360

    But really when it comes to overcoming your fears, there is always motivation that needs

    731

    00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,280

    to be assessed before.

    732

    00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:32,720

    So I know some people that say like, I'm afraid of falling on lead.

    733

    00:54:32,720 --> 00:54:33,720

    Like, okay.

    734

    00:54:33,720 --> 00:54:35,760

    Do you want to overcome it?

    735

    00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,200

    Like yes and no.

    736

    00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:38,200

    Okay.

    737

    00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:39,200

    Why yes?

    738

    00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,200

    Why no?

    739

    00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:47,720

    Yes, because otherwise I feel like a failure as a climber, but no, because I mean, I am

    740

    00:54:47,720 --> 00:54:54,160

    a trad climber and I feel like I can enjoy my trad climbing even if I do easy climbing

    741

    00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:58,480

    and what is really important for me in climbing is the community, being outdoors, being in

    742

    00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,200

    the nature, being with friends and having fun.

    743

    00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:08,440

    So in that case, I don't feel the need of improving my fear of falling.

    744

    00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:15,640

    And so there you see that in those cases, like is it really worth it going through the

    745

    00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:23,720

    fear of falling training, going through the adrenaline, all the stress of doing, because

    746

    00:55:23,720 --> 00:55:30,160

    it's stressful for a lot of people to do this kind of training and to do what?

    747

    00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:35,680

    To give credit to the voice in your head that says that if you don't climb super hard, you're

    748

    00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,720

    not a good climber.

    749

    00:55:37,720 --> 00:55:39,580

    You know what I mean?

    750

    00:55:39,580 --> 00:55:42,840

    So in some cases, I actually advise not to do it.

    751

    00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:45,280

    I mean, don't do it.

    752

    00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:50,400

    If you enjoy what you're doing, if you don't feel like there's a real need of like overcoming

    753

    00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:55,600

    this fear, this is not actually limiting your enjoyment or limiting what you want to do.

    754

    00:55:55,600 --> 00:56:04,240

    And actually in some cases, it's also like a measure of saying I am good enough or not

    755

    00:56:04,240 --> 00:56:06,400

    and just don't do it.

    756

    00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:12,520

    We don't have to like, this is my own perspective, but we don't always have to show ourselves

    757

    00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:17,440

    or to others that we are worth of something no matter what.

    758

    00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:24,760

    It's a bit of a narrative that we hear around, like always try to improve yourself, but can

    759

    00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:28,320

    you really try to improve yourself in everything?

    760

    00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,320

    We don't do it.

    761

    00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:34,520

    I can tell you from the research that I do that we don't try to improve in everything

    762

    00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:41,040

    because there is always something that feels so impossible for us that we don't even try.

    763

    00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:45,800

    We don't even realize that these things are possible.

    764

    00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:50,520

    We don't realize, if it's an okay, study astrophysics.

    765

    00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,360

    Most people wouldn't even consider it.

    766

    00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:57,040

    Like oh, but you should improve yourself, but why should I study astrophysics?

    767

    00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:05,800

    I had interesting physics in my life, but this is just the general example.

    768

    00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:11,960

    Like do we really have to improve ourselves or it makes sense for us to improve in things

    769

    00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:15,960

    that are important for us because it gives us satisfaction, it gives us connection with

    770

    00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:21,480

    other people, it makes us feel like we are improving and this is important for us and

    771

    00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,560

    so on.

    772

    00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,480

    And especially sometimes can be as it's a detrimental.

    773

    00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:32,240

    So if it's giving power to those voices that say you need to do this climb on lead or it's

    774

    00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:36,240

    not valuable or it doesn't count, I've heard so much.

    775

    00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,680

    Right, yeah, I hear that a lot.

    776

    00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,400

    I know and then like count for what?

    777

    00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:50,560

    Am I going to get into the debate whether I sent this 6C in the climbing community or

    778

    00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:51,800

    not?

    779

    00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:56,320

    Like you could do with 9C with or without knee pads?

    780

    00:57:56,320 --> 00:58:01,400

    So this is like we can ask ourselves, does it make it easier, does it make it harder

    781

    00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:07,400

    and does it count as like the difficulty of the route because we're talking about very

    782

    00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:13,920

    high end, the very high end part of our sport.

    783

    00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:18,400

    So then it's important, it has a meaning but when it comes to climbing, when it comes to

    784

    00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:25,000

    doing something that we do for our enjoyment, it's not our job, okay, then it doesn't make

    785

    00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:28,280

    as much sense.

    786

    00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:32,800

    Professional climbers get their sponsorships by the degree of difficulty of the routes

    787

    00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,720

    they climb or the boulders that they climb.

    788

    00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:35,720

    Do we?

    789

    00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,960

    As normal average climber, I'm not the average climber.

    790

    00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:39,960

    I wish.

    791

    00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:40,960

    You wish?

    792

    00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:49,840

    I mean, it is, you can get recognition for sure but it's a different kind of process

    793

    00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:50,840

    for sure.

    794

    00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,440

    So if it's important for you, do it.

    795

    00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:58,380

    If it's not that important for you, then consider.

    796

    00:58:58,380 --> 00:59:03,080

    Maybe you can find something else that is important in your life that is worth putting

    797

    00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,680

    your effort into.

    798

    00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:12,960

    For all the people out there who maybe think that mindset or mental coaching is not as

    799

    00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:18,120

    important for them, what would you say to convince them that it is important and that

    800

    00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:22,040

    it can make a difference in their climbing?

    801

    00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,880

    I wouldn't want to convince them actually.

    802

    00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:32,320

    So for example, it's like going to the physiotherapist when you don't have an injury.

    803

    00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:39,800

    Okay, the knowledge, the basic knowledge, so to prevent injuries can be very important.

    804

    00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,560

    For example, physiotherapists can help in this.

    805

    00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:50,680

    But sometimes when I would say go to do mental coaching when you feel that you want to do

    806

    00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,120

    it, not because you feel the need to do it.

    807

    00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:58,880

    So if you feel like there is a need, there is a need because you have a fear of falling,

    808

    00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:07,240

    I wouldn't advise mental coaching to everyone just by like just do it.

    809

    01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,200

    No, because mental coaching has a cost.

    810

    01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:15,560

    Just like people wouldn't go to a personal trainer.

    811

    01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:19,400

    How would you advise everyone to go to do personal training for climbing?

    812

    01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,400

    I wouldn't.

    813

    01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,480

    Like do it if you want to do it.

    814

    01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:23,740

    It has a cost.

    815

    01:00:23,740 --> 01:00:28,040

    You can do something else with those resources if you want to.

    816

    01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:31,480

    If it's something that is important for you, just absolutely.

    817

    01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,720

    If it's something that it's worth for you doing, absolutely.

    818

    01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:41,280

    And there might be much more that you actually expect or imagine into mental training, mental

    819

    01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,280

    coaching, absolutely.

    820

    01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:49,360

    But I don't believe like if it was available for everyone for free, like I'm doing on YouTube,

    821

    01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:54,360

    I'm trying to share information for free as much as possible, then go check it out.

    822

    01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:55,360

    Why not?

    823

    01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:59,320

    It's something that I'm trying to bring there that is different from what other people are

    824

    01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:00,320

    doing.

    825

    01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:04,640

    And okay, time is not infinite, but it might be.

    826

    01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:08,120

    I hope it's some well used time.

    827

    01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:17,880

    But when it comes to like doing some precise one-to-one coaching or mental coaching courses

    828

    01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:23,560

    and workshops, it makes sense if it makes sense to you.

    829

    01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:29,080

    So if you are interested in improving your, for example, root reading and visualization,

    830

    01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:30,080

    then do it.

    831

    01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:34,120

    It's something that maybe you didn't think about doing systematically, but it can be

    832

    01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:35,120

    done.

    833

    01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:42,720

    If you feel like you'd be interested in doing sure-following courses, absolutely.

    834

    01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:43,720

    Follow the courses.

    835

    01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:49,800

    If you think that you want to improve your, for example, your self-talk, your emotional

    836

    01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:56,760

    regulation or how you manage anxiety, and that is meaningful for you.

    837

    01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:02,200

    So for example, you have that much anxiety that you can't do what you want.

    838

    01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:04,640

    You either perform or enjoy the activity.

    839

    01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:05,640

    Absolutely.

    840

    01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,000

    We're here for this.

    841

    01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,240

    If it makes sense to you.

    842

    01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:15,120

    If you are a professional athlete and for you it's important to have the top edge even

    843

    01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:23,480

    in your mindset and in all those mental aspects in climbing for you to actually be able to

    844

    01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:25,360

    perform at your best.

    845

    01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:27,240

    And absolutely do it.

    846

    01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:31,240

    If your federation has the money for it or if someone has the money for it, of course.

    847

    01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:36,280

    Always the same problem of resources, I have to say.

    848

    01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:43,880

    And when it comes to climbing, I don't see as much the prejudice towards working on your

    849

    01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:52,000

    mind as much as you would see it in psychotherapy because there is no stigma over diagonals,

    850

    01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:53,880

    let's say.

    851

    01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:55,400

    This is a big issue in psychotherapy.

    852

    01:02:55,400 --> 01:03:03,040

    I am no psychotherapist, but this, I have studied psychotherapy, so I know this issue.

    853

    01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:08,040

    Maybe there is a bit, I have to say that most of my clients are female.

    854

    01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:14,240

    So it could be that it's easier for females to reach out for help.

    855

    01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:18,240

    We know this is usually the case in general.

    856

    01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:23,720

    But I don't see as much stereotype and prejudice towards mental training in climbing and in

    857

    01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:24,720

    other settings.

    858

    01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:30,040

    And climbing is in general such a supportive community that people are aware of each other's

    859

    01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:34,720

    feelings, each other's issues or difficulties with judgment.

    860

    01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,680

    And they try to be sensitive about it.

    861

    01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:45,600

    And so I believe it's easier to reach out for mental coaching when it comes to climbing

    862

    01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:51,760

    compared to mental coaching and other services in other sectors.

    863

    01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:56,680

    So I'm not very convincing and maybe I'm not really selling my job as well as you would

    864

    01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:57,680

    want me to do.

    865

    01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:06,040

    But I really believe that it shouldn't be something that everyone should do it just

    866

    01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:07,040

    because.

    867

    01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:12,000

    Make people reactive in what they choose to do and do what they really want.

    868

    01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:16,040

    And it really would also yield more results and satisfaction.

    869

    01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:21,840

    I know we're already almost getting to the end of time here, but I do want to just switch

    870

    01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:26,520

    gears real quick so we can talk a little bit about your own competition experience.

    871

    01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:28,400

    Yes, why not?

    872

    01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:34,400

    So yeah, not at a world level or anything like that, but you've competed in the Swedish

    873

    01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,400

    League Championships.

    874

    01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:43,760

    How do you manage yourself mentally during a competition like that?

    875

    01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:44,760

    Definitely.

    876

    01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:52,000

    So the reasons why I went to the League Swedish Championships was pretty different from usual,

    877

    01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,960

    I would say.

    878

    01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:56,640

    I had basically two main goals.

    879

    01:04:56,640 --> 01:05:01,480

    The first one was to enjoy the route setting because I do a lot of route setting.

    880

    01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:05,760

    I enjoy route setting and World Cup route setting or like competition style route setting

    881

    01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,000

    is something that I'm really into.

    882

    01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:14,280

    And when you see the route set, that is just one wall all for you.

    883

    01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:17,440

    It's a different kind of setting.

    884

    01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:21,760

    It's just a lot of fun and that was one of the main reasons why I wanted to go.

    885

    01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:31,680

    But also I went to the Championships just two years after starting climbing.

    886

    01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:39,040

    My idea is that, okay, I got the red card, I can lead climb indoors, but I am afraid

    887

    01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,520

    of falling.

    888

    01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:45,560

    So I got the red card late because of COVID, the courses were red.

    889

    01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:53,240

    But anyways, I said, okay, I want to overcome my fear of falling when on-siting.

    890

    01:05:53,240 --> 01:06:00,600

    So my aim is I want to be able to go somewhere and be able to on-site and do my very best

    891

    01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:05,360

    when on lead as I am with, well, when I'm on top rope.

    892

    01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:14,400

    So I decided to put a very ambitious time schedule and to participate to the Championships

    893

    01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:19,960

    here just eight months after having taken the red card course.

    894

    01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:26,760

    So I had eight months, I signed up like second person, so I have number two, right after

    895

    01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:31,960

    opening of the enrollment.

    896

    01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:37,960

    And I said, okay, I have these eight months to go to this level and get as close as possible

    897

    01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:44,040

    to the school of trying to be confident while leading on-site.

    898

    01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,440

    And this was my main goal.

    899

    01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:51,760

    And of course, enjoying the whole process, every setting, meeting the people, and like

    900

    01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:55,240

    so many amazing people around there.

    901

    01:06:55,240 --> 01:07:00,440

    In that situation, so it was overall a lot of fun, very interesting.

    902

    01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:07,680

    Fear was still a factor at the time, so I couldn't give my whole best for the setting,

    903

    01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,760

    but I definitely was very satisfied.

    904

    01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:13,760

    I ended up also getting seventh.

    905

    01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:19,500

    So it was a very unexpected result to go to finals and so on.

    906

    01:07:19,500 --> 01:07:27,920

    This also really sparked the discussion about competitiveness in women because there were

    907

    01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:33,960

    so many more men, still a lot, that many, but so many more men compared to women.

    908

    01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:39,600

    We were just in eighth, so we already knew that we were all going to go to finals and

    909

    01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:43,200

    then right from the start.

    910

    01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:50,020

    And it really made me think about the reasons why women don't compete in general.

    911

    01:07:50,020 --> 01:07:56,400

    We know that men have much higher levels of competitiveness, and this is definitely driven

    912

    01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,440

    by a lot of social pressure.

    913

    01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:06,640

    So men have a lot less value of demonstrating social status by comparing with each other,

    914

    01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:17,360

    how females have the, let's say, social learning of community, being close to each other, helping

    915

    01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:24,320

    each other, and trying to be better than others as a way of being envied much more than a

    916

    01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:25,320

    card.

    917

    01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:32,160

    So we know that women tend to not want to compete as much as men.

    918

    01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:37,160

    There are many reasons why this is the case, and there are studies, and I'm still studying

    919

    01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:42,480

    about it because it's not my area of expertise, but there are definitely a lot of factors.

    920

    01:08:42,480 --> 01:08:48,520

    Some parts are, some are definitely also, then we can talk about how big the impact

    921

    01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:51,200

    is, but there are genetic differences.

    922

    01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:58,040

    So for example, hormones, and there is interaction with temperament, which is the set of traits

    923

    01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:02,880

    that you have when you're basically born, and then you have personality traits, that

    924

    01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:08,400

    is the development of the interaction between genetic factors, environment, and temperament.

    925

    01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:15,880

    And then you have social learning that becomes more and more self-driven the older you become

    926

    01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:17,560

    because you select your own environment.

    927

    01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:19,560

    So it's a very complex process.

    928

    01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:25,840

    It's very difficult to see which is the biggest share.

    929

    01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:34,720

    Obviously the social environment is pushing, meant to be more competitive compared to women,

    930

    01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:41,160

    but it's a bit of a shame to see that females don't want to put themselves into the situation

    931

    01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:45,120

    of being seen and get self-conscious.

    932

    01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:53,000

    We know that women have in general higher levels of anxiety, and especially social anxiety.

    933

    01:09:53,000 --> 01:10:00,400

    It's a matter of fact we know, so almost like double the frequency.

    934

    01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:07,960

    So it's something that we have to teach both guys and girls, that it's okay to compete,

    935

    01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:13,920

    that it's okay that sometimes people will look at you in a fun way, and that sometimes

    936

    01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:18,960

    you might make a fool of yourself, and that is fine as well.

    937

    01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:24,720

    For example, I have a lot of guys that I tried to bring to the competition, and girls as

    938

    01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:25,720

    well.

    939

    01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,560

    Girls I couldn't find to convince anyone.

    940

    01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:32,640

    I could convince guys, but some guys are saying, like, I'm not going because it doesn't make

    941

    01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:33,640

    sense to me.

    942

    01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:34,640

    Why?

    943

    01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:37,240

    Because I don't want to be last.

    944

    01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,300

    And this is the main issue, right?

    945

    01:10:39,300 --> 01:10:40,880

    You don't want to be last.

    946

    01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:46,800

    And I want to ask anyone, like, can you tell me one name of one person that arrived last

    947

    01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:49,440

    at the competition that you've seen?

    948

    01:10:49,440 --> 01:10:54,200

    I guess that's kind of the point, I guess.

    949

    01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:59,800

    That is also kind of a point, but people are not competing to be, well, of course, if you

    950

    01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:04,160

    want to go there and win, if this is your goal, you want to be remembered as the one

    951

    01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:13,760

    that wins, but people are afraid of when it comes to arriving last, and like to be perceived

    952

    01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:17,840

    as a fool or someone who's a loser and so on.

    953

    01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,160

    But like there is always a last one.

    954

    01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:25,920

    And I guess no one will remember that you got last, so it's fine.

    955

    01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:26,920

    Fine.

    956

    01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:33,840

    But sometimes, you know, we try to evaluate ourselves and give ourselves value depending

    957

    01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:36,000

    on how we perform.

    958

    01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,800

    This is one part of the process.

    959

    01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:41,320

    We know there is an impact of that.

    960

    01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:47,240

    If you do better in outcomes, you will feel more confident for the next time.

    961

    01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:50,200

    If you do worse, you will feel less confident.

    962

    01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:57,360

    Yeah, but the problem is sometimes that the fear of failure really can impact even your

    963

    01:11:57,360 --> 01:12:01,000

    idea of trying.

    964

    01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:05,920

    And that really impacts your development, impacts your confidence, because you're not

    965

    01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:12,440

    able to sustain the frustration of failure, and we go back to the topic that we were talking

    966

    01:12:12,440 --> 01:12:14,600

    about before, right?

    967

    01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:19,240

    Do you think that's also the case in other sports where there's also just like less women

    968

    01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:22,000

    interested in all competitions?

    969

    01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,640

    Or is it specifically climbing?

    970

    01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:32,240

    Because I mean, there is a bit more of a gender gap in terms of male climbers and like female

    971

    01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:33,520

    climbers.

    972

    01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:37,240

    So I don't have the data for all sports.

    973

    01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:40,000

    There are definitely differences in different kinds of sports.

    974

    01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:47,280

    I know, for example, that one of the most balanced sports for gender is CrossFit, where

    975

    01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,920

    the share of females and males is 50-50.

    976

    01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:52,360

    Surprising, actually.

    977

    01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:56,240

    Very surprising and very interesting.

    978

    01:12:56,240 --> 01:13:00,200

    But there are, I would say, two factors.

    979

    01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:06,000

    One is that for male sports, they're usually much more endorsed than for females since

    980

    01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:15,960

    we're growing up always, because the development of the physical abilities, it's much more

    981

    01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:19,380

    rewarded in men compared to women.

    982

    01:13:19,380 --> 01:13:26,920

    And then when women train, socially speaking, a lot of time it happens for weight management

    983

    01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:29,840

    rather than for like the development of strength.

    984

    01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:36,360

    So men tend to go much more into fitness rather than sports, unless they've been growing up

    985

    01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:43,560

    in a situation like in a culture or in a family that is pushing towards sports instead.

    986

    01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:50,880

    So typically kids start by doing sports because sports allow them to develop a lot of different

    987

    01:13:50,880 --> 01:13:58,160

    abilities, coordination and balance, different self-body awareness and a lot of stuff.

    988

    01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,880

    And of course, it's super healthy.

    989

    01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:11,840

    But then when they go into competitive settings, competitiveness is also much more rewarded

    990

    01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,000

    in men, as I said.

    991

    01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:22,880

    So as I said, it's easier for men to feel some satisfaction from competing while females

    992

    01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:25,200

    tend to feel more self-conscious.

    993

    01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:30,000

    And then when it comes to, as I said, growing up and choosing the activity that you want

    994

    01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:37,960

    to do, females go into fitness not only because of weight management, body image and so on,

    995

    01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:41,960

    but also because men do this as well, of course.

    996

    01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:46,880

    But it's also because there is no element of competition that is directed, like a tension

    997

    01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:49,480

    on who is better than the other.

    998

    01:14:49,480 --> 01:14:55,160

    And a lot of people find a lot of relief into this kind of setting.

    999

    01:14:55,160 --> 01:15:00,280

    And in a certain sense, it's great that people find their own environment.

    1000

    01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:06,200

    I'm not saying that everyone should be competitive or no one should be competitive.

    1001

    01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:08,640

    Everyone should be allowed to do what they want.

    1002

    01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:14,560

    But the thing is that when it comes to gender, I would say that there are some pressures

    1003

    01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:20,760

    are hindering the ability to choose, and this is a bit of a shame.

    1004

    01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:26,720

    When it comes to climbing, climbing, I don't have the data.

    1005

    01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:29,480

    I really don't have the data about how many people are...

    1006

    01:15:29,480 --> 01:15:33,720

    I mean, I know how many females we have in our club and it's much, much less than what

    1007

    01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:35,880

    we have for men.

    1008

    01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:42,360

    I know that in some cases it's a third or less than members.

    1009

    01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:49,720

    And it is also true that it's a sport in which the progression for female at the start is

    1010

    01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,280

    harder than for males.

    1011

    01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:56,340

    So male progression are more faster at the start than females.

    1012

    01:15:56,340 --> 01:15:59,200

    So it can be less rewarding.

    1013

    01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:07,160

    But there are other sports that are rewarding more female abilities, such as balance or

    1014

    01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:12,800

    other types of abilities that might reward more females compared to males.

    1015

    01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:14,680

    For climbing, I don't really know.

    1016

    01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:18,560

    There is definitely a difference between bouldering and lead climbing.

    1017

    01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:24,280

    So it's easier to find a share that is higher for lead climbing compared to bouldering because

    1018

    01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:26,560

    it's less powered than bouldering.

    1019

    01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:31,280

    At the same time, bouldering is more accessible than rope climbing because you don't need

    1020

    01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:35,360

    a partner, you don't need a harness, you don't need a belayer and so on.

    1021

    01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:40,760

    So I would say that the share for females is improving also because weight-changing

    1022

    01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:46,720

    technique, you teach them how to overcome the difficulties with having less pulling

    1023

    01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:51,640

    ability compared to men.

    1024

    01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:55,560

    There is also variation, of course, and we always have to talk about it.

    1025

    01:16:55,560 --> 01:17:06,760

    But we know that the female body after puberty has the development for a very strong lower

    1026

    01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:14,440

    body compared to body weight and then the lower parts, lower limbs.

    1027

    01:17:14,440 --> 01:17:20,200

    So actually we know that, for example, females are very strong in...

    1028

    01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:21,800

    Can you share the cat?

    1029

    01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:22,800

    Yeah.

    1030

    01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:25,520

    Cat is like a straight tension.

    1031

    01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:34,000

    So pulling ability is definitely of higher level for males without training.

    1032

    01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:39,360

    Like if the males and the females pulling ability, the dimension of the muscles in the

    1033

    01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:41,400

    back are bigger.

    1034

    01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:44,720

    So it is easier for them to do pull-ups.

    1035

    01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:48,520

    And if you can do pull-ups, it's definitely easier to campus push-ups.

    1036

    01:17:48,520 --> 01:17:56,000

    And you can, let's say, work without as much technique.

    1037

    01:17:56,000 --> 01:18:01,640

    You can figure it out and get away with it, getting your send and getting your reward.

    1038

    01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:10,240

    While females need to go through more frustration at the start compared to men.

    1039

    01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:11,240

    And then there is reach.

    1040

    01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:12,920

    Let's not forget about it.

    1041

    01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:19,520

    Yeah, and when you're in the competitions and there's so many less women to compete against,

    1042

    01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,400

    I think that happens to me as well.

    1043

    01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:31,520

    And it kind of feels like, oh, well, maybe I placed high, but there were only three other

    1044

    01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:32,880

    people to compete against.

    1045

    01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:36,400

    So it doesn't feel very legitimate.

    1046

    01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:38,680

    I think that's an issue as well.

    1047

    01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:44,840

    Yeah, I mean, this is really depending on the type of standards I have for success and

    1048

    01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:47,600

    failure would make you satisfied or not.

    1049

    01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:53,200

    And what is the drive for you to compete?

    1050

    01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:55,800

    I really like competing, for example.

    1051

    01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:59,680

    I used to never compete because it was too much pressure for me.

    1052

    01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:02,000

    Then I started climbing and I changed as a person.

    1053

    01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:07,560

    And now I really enjoy competing because it really gives me the possibility to focus on

    1054

    01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:10,720

    getting max effort in that setting.

    1055

    01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:16,800

    So for example, I've learned to not go as hard before the competition, not prepare and

    1056

    01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:21,160

    having my trainings for that situation.

    1057

    01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:25,560

    And I like that I have no excuses for not trying my best.

    1058

    01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:27,280

    That is the moment.

    1059

    01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,760

    And this is a feeling that I like a lot.

    1060

    01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:36,120

    And if I am able to try my best, try very hard, I get a lot of satisfaction, independently

    1061

    01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:39,880

    from the result.

    1062

    01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:45,800

    Then it happened to me too that I won the climbing club competition because the strongest

    1063

    01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:47,240

    climber wasn't there.

    1064

    01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:48,240

    She was outdoor climbing.

    1065

    01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:49,240

    Oh great, yeah.

    1066

    01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:53,320

    On a Sunday day, so very few people competed.

    1067

    01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:58,560

    And she is so much stronger than me, super short as well.

    1068

    01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:04,120

    So it's really agility that makes her incredible.

    1069

    01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:09,440

    And I won, I still beat another competitor that is very, very strong.

    1070

    01:20:09,440 --> 01:20:11,720

    Usually he always beats me.

    1071

    01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:13,820

    It was a route that suited me a lot.

    1072

    01:20:13,820 --> 01:20:15,600

    So there are a lot of contingencies.

    1073

    01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:17,560

    I take this victory.

    1074

    01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:24,720

    I'm happy that I won for the first time the club competition.

    1075

    01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:29,040

    At the same time, does it change really what I think about myself, what I think about myself

    1076

    01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:30,040

    as a climber?

    1077

    01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:35,080

    No, I wouldn't say that I'm stronger than the other girls.

    1078

    01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:39,440

    Neither of them, neither of the ones that I beat in that specific situation, competitions

    1079

    01:20:39,440 --> 01:20:40,440

    are like this.

    1080

    01:20:40,440 --> 01:20:45,280

    And I think that actually when it comes to sport, there is almost nothing that is as

    1081

    01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:46,280

    unfair.

    1082

    01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:51,400

    There are so many factors that go in between.

    1083

    01:20:51,400 --> 01:20:59,400

    Directly being able to control the results and seeing this is the result of your effort

    1084

    01:20:59,400 --> 01:21:02,800

    or your weaknesses is incredibly hard.

    1085

    01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:08,720

    You need to have a lot of competitions to try to rule out the effects of chance, the

    1086

    01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:13,080

    effects of people getting injured.

    1087

    01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:20,600

    Maybe we have the slug or someone else slipping or there's always something that goes on.

    1088

    01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,600

    And then there is a lot of disparity when it comes to facility.

    1089

    01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:30,640

    I can never climb competition-style things because we can't set them.

    1090

    01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:33,760

    We don't have the space, we don't have the ability.

    1091

    01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:36,100

    We really don't have the space.

    1092

    01:21:36,100 --> 01:21:38,480

    Our bouldering area is incredibly small.

    1093

    01:21:38,480 --> 01:21:42,320

    We have a lot of roots, but we have very little bouldering.

    1094

    01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:48,120

    So the only thing that I can do is to go to other places in Stockholm and try to do comp

    1095

    01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:49,120

    style things.

    1096

    01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:54,120

    Of course, I can't be very good at those if I can't train them.

    1097

    01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:57,560

    And then this is how it is.

    1098

    01:21:57,560 --> 01:22:04,360

    We have to accept that we try to make it as even as possible, but for a sport and especially

    1099

    01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:07,520

    climbing is very, very far from being fair.

    1100

    01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,000

    Very, very far.

    1101

    01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:13,120

    As I said, Jayla, she was two years old.

    1102

    01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:16,040

    She has a home wall.

    1103

    01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:23,120

    And her bouldering space is bigger than the bouldering space that we have in our gym.

    1104

    01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:24,680

    It's like this.

    1105

    01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:29,080

    And I mean, Jayla has her own personal mental coach.

    1106

    01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:35,920

    And we're trying to bring it, to make it fair as much as possible.

    1107

    01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,680

    Then what are the conclusions that you...

    1108

    01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,480

    Everyone is trying to do their best, even in the competition setting.

    1109

    01:22:42,480 --> 01:22:49,080

    Jayla is not just amazing because she has those privileges, let's say.

    1110

    01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:51,440

    But at the same time, we have to consider.

    1111

    01:22:51,440 --> 01:22:55,840

    Some people don't have some privileges and some people have them.

    1112

    01:22:55,840 --> 01:23:01,040

    And we have to try to understand that these things happen.

    1113

    01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:03,880

    And sometimes there are other things that get in the way.

    1114

    01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:06,760

    And they said, maybe you injure yourself.

    1115

    01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:07,760

    And sometimes this happens.

    1116

    01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:10,200

    It's just like lack of luck.

    1117

    01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:13,640

    You have a genetic predisposition to injuries as well.

    1118

    01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:15,480

    So what if you have...

    1119

    01:23:15,480 --> 01:23:19,360

    I have neck injuries all the time, since before flagging.

    1120

    01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:22,720

    So I have chronic pain for my neck.

    1121

    01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:26,920

    And I always need to be very cautious about it all the time.

    1122

    01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:30,120

    And at the moment, it's hurting a lot.

    1123

    01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:34,620

    And there is something that is there all the time in the back of my head.

    1124

    01:23:34,620 --> 01:23:39,920

    So I know that I, in a certain sense for me, trying to look into going forward with my

    1125

    01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:44,960

    competitive climbing means trying to go around this.

    1126

    01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:47,000

    It's something that I have to think.

    1127

    01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:53,800

    Beatrice Colle, speed climber, Italian, now World Cup level.

    1128

    01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:59,720

    She has a deformation in her heel and she has special shoes for her to be made because

    1129

    01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:01,340

    she has this disease.

    1130

    01:24:01,340 --> 01:24:03,300

    And the heel hooking for her is very painful.

    1131

    01:24:03,300 --> 01:24:05,280

    So she has to go around that.

    1132

    01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:09,240

    She's a speed climber, but of course she does all the types of climbing as well.

    1133

    01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:11,400

    And so she has to go around this.

    1134

    01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:16,360

    And sometimes you have to think about like, these things happen.

    1135

    01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:21,840

    Sometimes we try to go around them, but there is not much thing that we can do about them.

    1136

    01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:24,640

    Yeah, we're coming to the end of time.

    1137

    01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:31,080

    I think those were all the questions I had, but do you have any final thoughts?

    1138

    01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:32,440

    It was a pleasure being here.

    1139

    01:24:32,440 --> 01:24:33,440

    Yeah.

    1140

    01:24:33,440 --> 01:24:35,560

    Do you want to let people know where they can find you?

    1141

    01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:36,600

    Absolutely.

    1142

    01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:43,840

    So they can find me and my email that is alegra at climbingflow.com.

    1143

    01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:49,840

    Of course, you can also find me on Instagram, Aligra McGuire.

    1144

    01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:52,440

    You can follow through the YouTube channel.

    1145

    01:24:52,440 --> 01:24:56,360

    There's Aligra McGuire, climbing psychologist.

    1146

    01:24:56,360 --> 01:25:03,360

    And yeah, basically I am active on all of these social media.

    1147

    01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:13,920

    My answer, and if you want to know more about my mental coaching services, www.climbingflow.com.

    1148

    01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:15,600

    And then there are also my contacts.

    1149

    01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:16,600

    Yeah.

    1150

    01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:19,840

    I'll leave all of the links below in the description.

    1151

    01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:21,280

    Yeah.

    1152

    01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:22,280

    Thank you so much.

    1153

    01:25:22,280 --> 01:25:24,120

    It was amazing to talk to you.

    1154

    01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:25,120

    Thank you.

    1155

    01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:30,140

    Thank you so much for making it to the end of the podcast.

    1156

    01:25:30,140 --> 01:25:34,200

    If you're watching on YouTube, I would love to hear your discussion and thoughts in the

    1157

    01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:36,000

    comments below.

    1158

    01:25:36,000 --> 01:25:39,100

    And don't forget to like and subscribe if you enjoyed.

    1159

    01:25:39,100 --> 01:25:44,240

    If you're listening through a podcasting platform, I'd appreciate if you rate it five stars and

    1160

    01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:50,080

    you can continue the discussion through my competition climbing discord linked in all

    1161

    01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:53,080

    the descriptions through all the platforms.

    1162

    01:25:53,080 --> 01:26:00,440

    Thanks again for listening.

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